11-27-00

I just received the news about Kim from a fellow sorority sister (Tricia Katz), and I have been going through the information on the website. I haven't seen Kim since college, but I have such fond memories of her. Brian, I met you a couple of times too, and I am so touched by the effort you've put into this site, and by your incredible love story. I am truly sorry for your loss.

My thoughts are with you.

Love, Kristen Moyer

11-27-00

Dear John, Nora and Brian,

Barbara and I were deeply saddened to hear of Kim's passing. While no words can take away the pain and sorrow you are going through, we hope it is of some comfort to know that you have many friends whose thoughts and prayers are with you now.

David and Barbara Welch

11-26-00

Brian,Nora and John

My thoughts and prayers are with you all in this very difficult time. Kim was and always will be one of the most amazing people I know. I will always be thankful that I was blessed with her friendship.god bless you all.

Nancy Hipps

11-25-00

Kim,

Often times people enter your life for just a season, but their impact will be infinite. Even though I only knew you briefly, your impact will be infinite. Our paths crossed because of the "fund", but a friendship blossomed. I will never forget you. Your courage, strength, and humor through it all will continue to motivate my life. Our friendship will remain locked in my heart forever along with your sweet smile. Thank you for being you...

Love,

Nikki Cook

M.D. Anderson Cancer Center

11-24-00

Brian,

We were some of the fortunate few to have known Kimberly. Although the setting was less than appealing, you could still see the gift that she carried inside. A gift that has touched us all here at the chamber. Working here is like balancing on a double-edged sword. Most of the patients that we see in this setting are not in the dire straits that Kim was in. To see the attitude that she portrayed and to see the support that she received from family and friends as can be seen through this website will hopefully give hope to the others in this situation. For us, we realize there is no promise of tomorrow and that we must savor every moment of life. Her voice will echo through our halls and hearts forever...

The Hyperbaric Crew

11-24-00

life breaks into pieces and some pieces are splintered and some pieces are smooth. friends are smooth...until the splinters set in.

and then it hurts
and then it numbs
and then it haunts

but nothing changes...including what's in the heart...including what's in the memories.

and then it begins to warm
and then it begins to feel
and then it begins to comfort...because that was her way.

life breaks into pieces and some pieces are splintered and some pieces are smooth. friends are smooth...like stones in a river...a melody soft and kind and forever.

staf

11-23-00

Dear Brian, Nora and John,

May the memory of Kim's strength and love of life help us all through these difficult days. Simply know our thoughts and our prayers are with you all.

Love,

Rose and Jim Lordi

11-23-00

Dear Kim,

This message is one of thanks. On this Thanksgiving Day I give thanks that you shared yourself with us all here at M.D. Anderson. You can never know what you gave. With each smile and breath you showed courage. With every cell in your body you showed love. Kim, thank you for being you. I have been blessed to have known you,

Wendi Jones,RN

11-23-00

Kim

You have left us

You have left a Mother

a Father
a Husband
and Friends

But
You have left us with a vision

of Courage
of Beauty
of Goodness

But most of all you have left us

a Vision of LOVE

Thank you Kim
We shall miss you

The Bargers

11-22-00

Dear Kim,

You will always be in our thoughts each and every single day. You have taught us the power of love,courage and strength. Heaven is a better place now because of you. Thank you for touching all of our lives in such a special way.

Dear John, Nora and Brian,

My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Lisa

11-22-00

Dear Brian and the Patterson Family,

I am deeply sorry to hear that Kim has passed away. Kim and all of you are in my thoughts. The display of courage, hope, and love that you all have shown has been absolutely staggering. Kim was a a truly remarkable person and was an inspiration to everyone in her resolve to battle and overcome this disease. She put up an incredible fight and was battling odds that no one should have to face.

Brian and family, I wish you peace this Thanksgiving and hope that your pain may be eased by the thought that Kim is no longer in pain and is smiling down on us all.

Much love,

Berto

11-22-00

Dear Brian, the Patterson family and everyone who had the pleasure of knowing Kim,

I am deeply saddened to hear of your loss. Kim's story has been a source of inspiration and strength for me over the past 8 months during which my father has been battling this horrible disease. In sharing your story you have done a world of good.

I believe Kim was in my sorority (at a different school) and if I recall correctly, one of our symbols was an angel. From what I've read about your Kim, she definitely seemed to fit the description of an angel. May your wonderful memories of her keep her spirit alive and with you always.

My deepest sympathies,

Melissa Pett

11-22-00

Dear Nora, John and Brian, I hope the following may give you some comfort.

"God saw she was getting tired...
and a cure was not to be;
So He put His arms around her
and said 'Come with Me.'
With tearful eyes we watched
and saw her fade away.
Although we loved her dearly,
we could not make her stay.
A precious heart stopped beating.
Gentle hands came to rest.
God broke our hearts to prove to us,
He only takes the best."
Kim was the BEST.

Love, Shannon (Staub)

11-22-00

Dear Brian, Nora and John,

Words cannot express the sadness we felt when we heard of Kim's passing. We only had the privilege to meet Kim and Brian once with the Stolberg's while releasing the baby turtles on Siesta Beach in 1999, but in that short time it was obvious that Kim was a very special person, and her spirit shone out and touched everyone around her. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers at this very difficult time. May your memories comfort you as Kim watches over you all, until you meet again.

Jack & Sally McGill

11-21-00

Dear Sweet Kimmie,

I will be forever in your debt. You have given me such a wonderful gift and changed my soul forever. Because of you EVERY DAY I am striving to be a better mother, wife, daughter and friend. You were an angel here on earth and I feel so blessed and thank God every day for knowing you.

-A Thankful Friend

11-21-00

"It is a far, far better thing that I do, than anything I have ever done; it is a far, far, better rest that I go to, than I have ever known."

-Charles Dickens

Kim, you live on in each and every one of us who had the privilege to know you.

ScottyP

11-21-00

Dear Kim,

I woke up this morning and felt like someone was watching over me. It was overwhelming. I said to myself, Ok, Kim, stop laughing at me because I look so funny in the morning. It was then that I realized we haven't lost you. You will be with us forever. How lucky we all are to have your spirit beside us to keep us strong and to keep us laughing, especially Brian and your parents.

My mother always told me that the only people who could see angels are babies and children. She said that is why they get that blank stare and seem to smile at empty space. So, the next time Brady or Macey start giggling for no apparent reason or smile at the sunset, I will know they are watching you. My grandfather, who passed last Thanksgiving, always said this blessing:

MAY THE ROAD RISE TO MEET YOU,

MAY THE WIND BE ALWAYS AT YOUR BACK,

MAY THE SUN SHINE UPON YOUR FACE,

THE RAINS FALL SOFT UPON YOUR FIELDS,

AND, UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN,

MAY GOD HOLD YOU IN THE PALM OF HIS HAND

(an old Irish blessing)

Until we meet again, Kimmie.

Love, Melissa

11-21-00

Dear Brian and the Patterson Family,

I know that no words can express the sorrow that you must be feeling. My husband lost his beloved cousin, Michael, to Lymphoma 5 years ago. Michael left behind his wife and 7 year old son. Although I know it is so hard to see anything positive in the loss of your dear Kim, please find comfort in this wonderful fund that you have created. Last year, my husband and I ran our first marathon for the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society, and I am running a half marathon this year in memory of Michael. This has helped us all to begin the healing process. May you find comfort in the beautiful memories that she has left you with. She sounds like an angel who will continue to guide you on your journey.

Love,

Karen Ali

11-21-00

Murph,

Sorry to hear about your loss. Kimmy was always a joy to see. I will forever remember her as the girl with the big smile and a heart to match. My prayers are with you my friend.

Rob Ross

11-20-00

My sweet, wonderful little friend.

I will miss you always. Feel my love and strength as your journey continues. Give a hug to Dad, and a big kiss for Nugget. We will see you soon.

Bootie

11-20-00

Brian and Commissioner and Mr. Patterson:

I offer my sympathy to you and your families. My thoughts are with you.

Chad Binette

Sarasota Herald-Tribune

11-20-00

Dear Brian:

Although I didn't have the pleasure of knowing Kim as well as you and all of the friend's she had, the time I did know her I will never forget! She was an amazing person, but ofcourse you already knew that. I just wanted to let you know that although Kim is not physically with you, her spirit will always be by your side. Kim will be everywhere you are! When the rain falls it will be Kim's tears of joy falling down upon you, letting you know she feels pain no more! And when the the wind blows against your hair, it is Kim's hands caressing you, letting you know she's with you. When the sun shines, it will be Kim shining down on you, letting you know her presence will be as vibrant now as it was when she was alive. Kim will always be alive. Kim, unlike most of us will be immortal!

My prayers will always be with all the family! May God give you the strength to get you through these hard days!

Sincerely,

Jessica

11-19-00

Kim and Brian -

My thoughts and prayers are with you both. Your love for one another and your strength and inspiration will get you through. You have inspired and touched so many people. Now know that we're all thinking of you and wishing you all the best.

Staci Kaliner

11-19-00

Dear Kim, Brian, John, and Nora: My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Carol Fisher

11-19-00

Dear Kim,

Amy shared the news with me yesterday about your marriage. Congratulations! This am I read about your wedding in the paper. I never think of you without a picture flashing through my mind of you and my son, David trying to do the waltz on the stage at Van Wezel. The smiles and laughter the two of you shared that evening will long be remebered. The Stafford's love, thoughts, and prayers are with you and Brian.

Barbara Stafford