| 02.18.05 Hello Brian and family, I want to commend you on the wonderful site in honour of your very special angel, Kim. It is truly a reflection of the type of person Kim was and of the love that each of you have for her. My wife Jennifer, at the age of 31, lost her two year battle to AML on June 29, 2004. We have a three year old son for whom is the apple of our eye. In reading information on the type of person Kim was, and is, I kept thinking how much Jennifer and Kim are alike. A "zest" for life that made everyone around them smile and the "personality" to conquer any challenge and achieve any goal set in their life's path. Truly AMAZING people who fought the 'best of best' battles, hard battles. We are truly blessed to have such wonderful angels watching over us!! From the bottom of my heart, thank you for all of the work you are doing to raise money in hopes of finding a cure for Leukemia. Kim will be so proud of you!!... and I know that Jennifer is as well!! Kindest Regards, |
| 02.16.05 Dear Brian, Murphys, Pattersons, friends, family, and everyone involved with the Kimberly Patterson Leukemia Research Fund, This past December, my father passed away at MD Anderson after complications from a stem cell bone marrow transplant for the treatment of acute myelogenous leukemia, somewhere around the half-way point of his "100 days" recovery. It has been just over the two month mark since this loss, and the end of this month would have been his 60th birthday. My mom, who lives in Stuart, FL, ran into Pam Patterson at the grocery store and learned from her of Kim's Fund, and passed the news along to me over the phone. I discovered and read through your site today, with feelings of joy, of sadness, of inspiration, and of a whole combination of these and other emotions. I agree, that it is so difficult to find words for this loss, especially during a time when you yourself struggle to understand and come to terms with the feelings themselves... and I know the feeling of sadness and fear and anger, and share the desire to channel these feelings and energies into something that can both help the people who continue to battle this disease and honor those who have bravely done so in the past. What a wonderful mission you have founded in Kim's name... thank you and bless you all. Carolyn Chen |
| 01.05.05 Brian, Wendi Jones, ACNP |
| 11.19.04 I'm thinking about your Kim today and you all too
in the 4 years that Kim has been gone. Just know that I keep praying
that the good Lord watch over you all in continuing your journey
here and I know Kim is your angel looking after you too!!! I'll
never forget Kim and what she brought to this life here! God bless.. Love, Susan |
| 6.24.04 Brian, Nora and John, I was just reading Kim and Brian's wedding announcement which is posted on the board in my office and decided to go to Kim's site. Thank you Brian for the update on how well the fund is doing. Kim would be so very pleased to know how she is helping others. She is in my thoughts as are all of you. Love, Jane |
| 06.17.04 Hello Johnn, Nora, & Brian, |
| 01.03.04 Hello Brian Johnny & Nora, |
| 03.03.03 Brian, I have followed Kim's amazing journey and your beautiful love affair from afar. Today I lost a friend to cancer, someone who was treated at MD Anderson around the same time Kim was. I went to this website again, first time in a while. I was glad to see it was still here. My thoughts and prayers are still with you and Kim's family. Kindest Regards Alex Coessens Fenech |
| 12.07.02 Hi Brian, Nora and John: I just got a new computer and wanted to test a website I had tried to access previously, so I looked at a list I'd made and there was Kim's name. I read a few of the messages. I'm sure they help to let you know how strong an impact Kim made and continues to make on others. The computer is in Marni's room and on her dresser is the beautiful wooden memories box that Jenn and Molly gave Marni at her wedding shower. Inside are many photos of them all together. I'm glad it's here for safekeeping and will be ready for Marni to take when she and Chris move back East next year. My love and prayers for peace in your hearts, Lynne |
| 11.25.02 Just thinking of you all. Good friends of ours just had their 2 1/2 year old boy diagnosed with leukemia three days ago. Started chemo today. Naturally, been thinking of Kim quite a bit these past few days, actually think of her everyday. That baby girl I had is as spunky and devilish (in a good way) as Kim. I knew she would be! Hope you all can meet her someday. Love to all, |
| 11.06.02 Was thinking of Kim, and thinking about you all -- she still makes me smile. -Spider |
| 10.23.02 Dear Nora, John & Brian, Just a note to let you know how often I think of Kim and smile. I love and miss her and can still hear her amazing laugh. Love, Susie Sears |
| 07.11.02 Your in my thoughts and prayers, I am sorry for this tradgedy, love, jack |
| 06.03.02 Dear Brian, Johnny & Nora, Kim is alway and every day on my mind. I just wanted to let you know how much I love her and that she will never be forgotten in my heart. Jenny Cafiero Auman |
| 03.12.02 Hello, Love, Cliff |
| 11.22.01 Dear Brian, I never met Kim but I know Nora and John who are very special to me. And I know how much they love Kim and I know how much they love you. Thank you for sharing your love story with all of us. I read it so many times. I 'd like you to know that what you did and what you went through was unreal. I am very happy that Kim had you beside her through all this journey. I hope you'll find some comfort. God bless you,Olga |
| 11.22.01 Dear Nora and John, I read about Kim's journey and I learned about the steps that all of you had to take. That was so unreal that she remained so brave and strong. We look at people like Kim because the truth is that we want to be like them. I regret that I never met her, that I never had an opportunity to experience for myself how wonderfull she was. Talanted, smart, funny, kind, giving, loving.... .I am sure that Kim is always going to be in our hearts. I'd like to tell you both that I love you. Olga |
| 11.19.01 Your smile and laughter have not been forgotten
and never will. They are forever embedded in my mind, heart and
soul. I miss you. |
| 10.04.01 Brian, John and Nora, I was just thinking about Kim this moment and wanted to let you know that though she is gone - Kim will NEVER be forgotten.....and I keep you all in my heart and prayers too. God Bless, Susan |
| 09.24.01 Hey, All. I am sitting here tonight wondering why it has been so long since I visited this website. I guess having a third child does that to you - swipes all your time away from you before you know it. However, tonight I sit here in angst. I just learned a few hours ago that my 15 month old niece has been hospitalized up at All Childrens Hospital in St. Pete. Something to do with her white blood cell count. Of course, I haven't been able to contact anyone so I don't know all the details. It's so hard having been a part of Kim's battle to not suspect the worst. I am sure she will be okay. I'll say prayers. But, I must admit - visiting this website tonight and seeing the pictures and reading the emails will make whatever news I hear tomorrow more endurable. The love and unbelievable gratefulness for life contained in this website will make any news a bit easier to hear. We think of you every single day. Last year I found
out I was pregnant just as Kim passed on. In July I gave birth to
a beautiful baby girl. Funny how life is cyclical, isn't it? I can't
help but think she has a bit of that special Kim Patterson Murphy
spirit within her. Melissa & Family |
| 07-27-01 Brian, John & Nora, As the summer goes by, I am reminded everyday of the fun times that Kim and I shared during our summer breaks from college. In fact it was about 10 years ago when Kim and I were travel buddies in Italy. I can remember the day before we left for our trip, I called Kim and told her that it was raining in Milan. Her response was, "How could it be raining in your lawn and not in mine?" I still chuckle every time I hear the city of Milan mentioned! Even though Kim's life was just shy of 30 years, she had the amazing gift of knowing how to live her life to the fullest. I hope that all three of you are finding some peace. I know that she is watching over all of us with loads of smiles. With Love, Jody Agnacian |
| 07-26-01 I am a 32 year old single mom who was just diagnosed with CML. I am scared and could really use some support. Please E-mail me. bigmoon2001us@yahoo.com |
| 06-27-01 Dear Brian, Mr. and Mrs. Patterson, I, along with Teresa Bartee, was one of the first nurses Kim had on the BMT floor. I remember the beautiful story of how Kim got engaged in the "bubble", and how loving Brian and Kim were to each other. I remember her ever present cheerfulness and energetic presence. I then remember seeing her on and off as the time went by and finally Kim was discharged. I then transferred to the ICU and ran into Kim and Brian in front of the elevators one day, and I was thrilled to see Kim looking so well. Then more time went by and I heard from a BMT nurse that they were married in the chapel. Once again I was so very excited for this exceptional couple. Recently, I again heard about Kim. This time I was so very sad to find out that she had died. I am sorry it has taken me so long to write... I miss her, I miss her laughter and her spirit.
Beatriz Stouse, RN |
| 04-29-01 Johnny & Nora, It seems the more time that has passed the harder
it has been for me to accept that Kim is gone. I feel so blessed
to have shared so many wonderful times with her. She has since changed
my life. I am truly a better person, wife and mother. There is not
one day that goes by that I do not think of her. I talk to her everyday
on the way to work in hopes that she will give me a sign that she
is listening. Kim was so beautiful inside as well as out...because
of the two of you. I hope one day Ariel will love me and have the
relationship as Kimmy had with the two of you. She not only respected
you both as loving parenting figures, but as friends. I know she
loved you both dearly...she has told me many times through the years. |
| 04-08-01 Dearest Brian, I visit Kim's website often to look at her pictures and remember the outstanding love you two shared. I know these past months have been extremely difficult for you. I think of you, Mr. John, and Mrs. Nora often. You were like our M.D. Anderson "family". I miss talking with you and Kim in the ambulatory unit. Those were such special times. You and Kim were part of our support system and for that I thank you dearly. Thank you for remembering Ben on March 10. You continue to be unselfish as you are going through this storm. I feel very blessed to have called Kim my friend. I know that Kim and Ben are smiling as they are looking down on us from heaven. We experienced a special love with Ben and Kim that many people never experience in a lifetime. Our love was cut short but the impact will forever live on. With love and prayers, |
| 04-04-01 Dear Brian, Nora and John, I just wanted you all to know that you are still in my thoughts. I hope you have seen some sunshine in everyday. Your precious Kim is remembered often. She is an example of strength, love and joy, as well as so many other things. I try to live by her many examples. Her spirit lives on in so many hearts, including mine. Very Sincerely, |
| 03-20-01 Dear Brian and Kim's family - I have posted numerous message on your site, but this may be my last. As I had written in previous messages, my father was diagnosed with AML 4/5/00. Like Kim, he had a bone marrow transplant. That kept him in remission for 4 months. He then relapsed and had a stem cell transplant in January. Also like Kim, he developed a fungal infection, but his was in his lung. I'm very sad to say I now truly understand your pain and sorrow in the loss of a loved one as my father passed away on March 2 due to complications of the transplant. Thank you again for sharing Kim's journey for it kept me strong during my father's battle. I wish you all the best. Sincerely, |
| 03-04-01 Kim's Birthday (she would have been 30 today) You are not only remembered today, but every day that has passed and will follow. We miss you so! |
| 02-23-01 Dear Brian, and Kim's family members - My name is Jeff Garrant, a 1993 graduate of the University of Rochester. During Spring Break of my junior year, myself and a group of friends traveled to Cancun, Mexico. It was there - upon learning that the hotel we were staying in was overbooked - that my friends and I were forced into lodging with Kim and her friends, Stephanie, Stacy, and Becky. You see, they got caught in the "overbooking" as well, and the eight of us - total strangers - ended up sharing a two-level suite. From the moment they walked in the door there wasn't a bit of uncomfortable-ness. Our whole group, and other groups of friends each of us had in Cancun, had the best time together. In fact, over the rest of our college years, my friends and I visited "the girls" at Syracuse on numerous occasions. Your wife/daughter - and her friends - were one of the fun-est groups of just flat out great people my friends and I have ever come across. Based on that, needless to say, my friend John was devastated when he came across this website, and I joined him in those feelings after he brought it to my attention. I wish would have encountered the site sooner because we definitely would have attended any and all of the fund-raisers in New York. I know my condolences are just another in a long line, but Kim deserves as many respects as she can get. Just on name recognition alone, Kim probably wouldn't remember who I am - and vice versa - but when I saw this site, and the names of the other girls, I remembered. I remembered all the great times we had with them. And I remembered Kim, her bouncy-ness, her exploding personality, and her just being an all-around fun, good, person. For all of us, our prayers are with you. Sincerely, Jeff Garrant, John McNaboe, Casey Silcock, and Lee Solomon P.S.: If you ask any of the girls about us, and they can't recall, just ask them who the best Lambada Dance pair they ever saw was - if they don't say "Jeff and John", they're lying! If any of them, or yourselves, would like to contact
us they can send an E-mail to: |
| 02-15-01 Dear Brian, I am so sad for your loss. I am 25 and my husband passed away after only 6 months of marriage due to this horrible disease. He has been gone 1 year now. My thoughts and prayers are with you and Kim's family at this sad time. May god watch over you and in time bring you some peace and comfort. Lorie |
| 02-02-01 Brian: I have to tell you how sad I was to hear of Kim's passing. I was Kim's pledge trainer in college and remember her as energetic and fun loving. I actually ran into her a few years ago in NYC. My heart goes out to you and your family. I wish I knew sooner so I could have done something. I'll hug my daughter a little stronger now. Cheryl (Hall) May |
| 01-19-01 Murph: We just heard of your loss. We
are deeply moved by your courage and your Love, Lori Storm and Becky Wine |
| 01-07-01 Brian, My name is Tammy and I also lost my husband
to leukemia. It's been seven years since Kyle died. It does get
easier, but when I hear about someone who is or has gone through
what my family and I did it still hurts. We have two children, both
boys, who at the time were three and five. Now they are ten and
thirteen. I am very lucky because I have had alot of help from family
and friends. I also have found someone who loves me and my boys
very much. We still miss Kyle everyday, but we have learned that
through the grace of God we do go on. My prayers will be with you
and yours. |
| 12-29-00 Brian, I was so sorry to hear of Kim's
passing. My thoughts are with you during this difficult time. Keep
well my friend. |
| 12-19-00 Dear Brian and Family Members, I first learned of Kim's passing on December 13th, long after the services had been held. Needless to say, initially I was very upset and then angry that I had missed the chance to attend and say goodbye to Kim. Eventually, I realized that I could never say goodbye, as Kim will hold a special place in my heart forever. I would like to thank you all of you for this website. You have given those who knew and loved Kim the opportunity to share in her journey, the joys and sorrows. Knowing that Kim received the best of care and love helps to ease the pain of losing her. I had the pleasure of being Kim's professor and friend over an eight year span. Kim was a riot to have in class, and of course, an exceptionally talented designer. Kim never failed to remember us at S.U. Whenever we worked together, when she was at J.S. Nichol and Brownstone, I would always brag about Kim and tell the students that she was absolutely someone they would adore and feel comfortable with. She never failed to charm all of us.We respected, admired and learned ALOT, from Kim. Mr. Jeff Beyda's words capture the many attributes Kim possessed that made all of us love her without reservation. The last time I spoke to Kim was in the early stages of her battle. As we gabbed, joked and laughed I could feel her strength, determination and the warmth of her smile. Kim cannot be forgotten. When we hear the laughter of a child – we will remember Kim's smile. When we awake to greet a new day – we will remember Kim's zest for life. When we say goodnight and the rays of a bright new star kisses our tears – we will remember Kim's loving spirit. On behalf of myself and the SPD
students, please accept our deepest regrets. Sincerely, |
| 12-08-00 Dear Brian, Mr. and Mrs. Patterson, Words are inadequate to express the feelings in my heart for all of you and "our angel" Kim. Thank you for the privelege of sharing in your joys(wedding) and sorrow in caring for Kim these past two years at MDA. After you left, we found a lovely small "angel doll"in her room--we will save it and treasure the memory of Kim in our hearts forever. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May God bless you and bring you peace and love. Love, Kathy Mroczkowski (RN-BMT) |
| 12-07-00 Dear Brian, Nora and John, I know that the memorial services are over but please know that Kim's presence is so very strong. She is alive in so many hearts. I thank you all for the life lessons that you have given me, those whom you know and those whom only know of you. Your courage, strength, determination, grace and love is a gift that you shared with so many. Nora and John, Thank you for giving the world such a beautiful person to know, admire and respect. Kim's life was definately cut short but her impact and spirit will live on for a very long time. Brian, Thank you for showing me what true and unconditional love is. Your and Kim's journey and marriage is an inspiration to me. I know that Kim is an Angel. She was given wings as big as her smile. I hope you can feel her wings around you. I hope you are comforted by her spititual presense and her memories. You all continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. Karen Sayre Tines |
| 12-07-00 Dear Brian, Nora and John, I wanted you to know that even though the memorial services are over Kim's presence is still strong. I wonder if you realize the life lessons each of you have shared with people you know well and people that only know of you. Your courage, strength, determination and love is a gift that you shared with so many people. It rests in my heart. Nora and John, thank you for giving us such a beautiful person to know, love and respect. Her time here was definately too short but her impact will go on for a very long time. Brian, thank you for showing us what true and uncoditional love is really all about. You and Kim's journey and marriage are an inspiration. I know Kim is an angel. She was given wings as big as her smile. I hope they comfort you often. |
12-02-00 Dear Brian and Patterson Family, I worked with Kim for alittle while at Town & Country. I just learned yesterday of her death and was quite shocked. I'm sorry to hear that she is gone. She was such a great, happy peron. She always knew how to put a smile on your face. Even though I did not work with her long enough to really get to know her, as she became ill shortly after I started there, she will be missed. Brian, I knew then how much she loved you and I am happy for Kim and you that you were able to show each other your love by getting married. You're a great guy. Again my deepest condolences. Jennifer Mulligan-Moffitt |
| 12-02-00 Dear Brian and Mr and Mrs Patterson, I find myself struggling to find the words to share with you regarding the loss of Kim, however the courage she showed in this tremendous fight helps to give me the peace and serenity inside myself to accept this extrordinary loss. Kim was not only a patient of mine but someone who I feel lucky enough to also call a friend. Kim's love for you all was an inspiration, she gave so freely of herself to everyone she met. Her smile brightened any room she was in and no matter how bad it got, she always found a way to smile or laugh. Caring for her in her last days meant so very much to me and will be precious memories that I will cherish forever. You all had a beautiful relationship and such a special love for one another, one that will remain in all of our hearts forever. It is extremely comforting knowing that Kim is forever watching over us and being each of ours Guardian Angel; her poise, grace, courage and determination gave her a remarkable pair of wings. My thoughts and prayers are with each of you, and I hope you can all pull from Kim's strength to help each other through such a difficult time in your lives. Love, Teresa Bartee, RN MD Anderson Cancer Center Bone Marrow Transplant |
| 12-01-00 To our dear Kim: You were the comet that streaks thru the night sky, brilliant but all too brief; leaving everyone in awe of the sight. Kim is truly one of God's angels. I feel very fortunate to have known her. Diane Grach |
11-30-00 A thing of beauty is a joy for
ever: We are so thankful for the beautiful life of Kimberly Patterson Murphy! With much love from Taylor & Esther |
11-28-00 Dear Brian and Patterson Family, I worked with Kim many years ago when she was employed with a design studio. We became friends and stayed in touch througout her career at Town and Country. Unfortunately, I did not have the opportunity to work with her any longer because T & C was a competitor of the company I was employed by. But, we would run into each other on the street from time to time and catch up on things. I always loved seeing her because no matter how over worked we all were, she always looked beautiful and mostly, she always had that great smile. Throughout Kim's very brave and difficult fight, I have been updated on her progress, and life in general by our mutual friend, Lisa Bergman. She called me today to let me know about Kim's passing. I was so sorry to get that phone call today. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your loved ones. Kim was a very special person. Risa Grama |
11-27-00 Kim, When we pledged Pi Phi, we all adopted the angel as our symbol of sisterhood. Life is made a little easier knowing there is a special angel named Kim watching over us now. As I wrote to your parents and wonderful husband Brian, you showed us all how to live life's each moment to the fullest, to smile as much as possible and to not take ourselves too seriously. Your presence always had the ability to light up a room and I know that you still carry that ability--you are just sharing it from a different place as your spirit still enlightens those who were so fortunate as to call you their familiy or friend. Your smile and fighting spirit will live on through all of us and we are better people for it. Thank you for being you--I Love You! TTF Gretchen |
11-27-00 Dear Commissioner and Mr. Patterson and Mr. Murphy: I was so sorry to learn about Kim's death. Kim's website has taught me a great deal about hope and happiness and love. Thank you for continuing to share it with everyone. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Carol Ann Kalish |
